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Posts Tagged ‘violence against women’

A Burning Ring of Fire

Monday, August 10th, 2009

Sam­buca is flam­ma­ble. Stuart Feltham, a young Bri­tish man, found this out when, alle­gedly, after inap­pro­pria­tely touching, and pos­sibly expo­sing his geni­tals to Marina Fanou­raki at a night club on Crete, he got Sam­buca thrown on him, and ended up in fla­mes. (Brit Stuart Feltham’s geni­tals set on fire on Greece holi­day.)

Stuart has been desc­ri­bed here and there, mostly by his parents and friends, as a nice guy, someone who would never do that, and as having a girl­friend — something that makes it ever more likely he wouldn’t par­ti­ci­pate in any of the beha­vior young Bri­tish tou­rists so com­monly par­ti­ci­pate in on Crete.

Feltham clai­med she came out of the blue and lit him on fire, and he doesn’t have a clue why she did it. Fanou­raki main­tai­ned she was accos­ted, gro­ped from behind, and in addi­tion he expo­sed him­self to her while thro­wing out the com­pa­nion words many of us are fami­liar with, words often heard in these situa­tions, “ya wanna piece of this”, or something simi­lar. Accor­ding to Fanou­raki, she then threw the Sam­buca on him and left, hea­ring the cries and seeing the flame only seconds later. She assu­mes a ciga­rette star­ted the fire.

The dis­cus­sion on the web circ­les around the fact that even if he expo­sed him­self to her, and gro­ped her from behind, she went too far. I might agree, had she actually thrown a match on the very flam­ma­ble liquor, something she denies. Even if she had inten­tio­nally thrown a match, I’m not so sure I’d say she went too far, if she was assaul­ted as she clai­med — and my bets are on her. Who is to decide what is an appro­priate defense when accos­ted? I say the woman is.

As it turns out, she tur­ned her­self in, had a hea­ring, told her story, was hai­led a hero by women. They resche­du­led a hea­ring for tomo­rrow so Mr. Feltham could come and pre­sent the story of his inno­cence, the one his law­yer has pre­viously pas­sed on.

Thing is, Mr. Feltham has left the buil­ding, or so uncon­fir­med reports say (though other reports say he is in another cli­nic in Greece, trans­fe­rred for secu­rity rea­sons), sec­retly, and before the court appea­rance where he could have pre­sen­ted his case, and con­se­quently before he could be char­ged with sexual assault.

Logic told me from the start her story was the correct one. The logic one gains from even a few club trips, and a little know­ledge about Bri­tish youth and Crete, a scene akin to Spring Break, Mexico, with the volume tur­ned up to night­mare levels. Now that he has left the country, if he has left the country, I don’t even need logic to know what really happened.

Come to think of it the title of the post pro­bably should be We Don’t Have to Take It.