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Misery Shared

July 29th, 2010 by cooper

I was offe­red a more cha­llen­ging and bet­ter com­pen­sa­ted posi­tion. I accep­ted. I will remain part time until I finish school in January, but I’m no lon­ger emplo­yed by the Com­mis­sion for Women. I’m now wor­king for the Com­mis­sion on Eco­no­mic Policy. For the rest of the year I will be wor­king on the finan­cial fea­si­bi­lity of cer­tain sus­tai­na­bi­lity poli­cies throughout the county, from air qua­lity to wild­life pre­ser­va­tion. I will actually be making policy as oppo­sed to merely analy­zing it.

My new office is in a brand new buil­ding, a buil­ding where the stench of fresh paint, new car­pet, and elec­tri­cal wires, is at times overwhel­ming. Also overwhel­ming, or pos­sibly the term is over­bea­ring, are the human resource depart­ment heads.

Having never had direct con­tact with HR at the Com­mis­sion on Women (the offi­ces were in a dif­fe­rent area of the city, far from the HR base office), it is jarring to see ever­yone in the same place, and the various heads of the HR depart­ments around every corner.

HR hires the pool of peo­ple who act as research or admi­nis­tra­tive assis­tants for those of us who work in any of a num­ber of offi­ces or com­mis­sions here. They do not hire the researchers, analysts, attor­neys, com­mis­sio­ners, and so on. Those posi­tions are elec­ted, or filled with depart­ment head hires like me. Des­pite having no juris­dic­tion over us, our work is often made easier, or more dif­fi­cult, because of HR’s decisions.

I went to the office on Tues­day, sche­du­led an after­noon mee­ting with Denise (my assis­tant), and atten­ded a mee­ting. When I retur­ned to the office the head of the depart­ment that doles out assign­ments had deter­mi­ned that I nee­ded a dif­fe­rent assis­tant. This women felt it best to assign me an older more expe­rien­ced assis­tant, now that I was wor­king for the eco­no­mic policy com­mis­sion. In other words, when I wal­ked in that mor­ning she saw how young I was and wrongly deci­ded that my assis­tant should be older than me. This is the same per­son who has been assig­ning Denise to me all along, but has never seen me in per­son. I’ve wor­ked with Denise almost exc­lu­si­vely for the past year. We work well together. She is part time and has been follo­wing my work schedule..Though she wasn’t exc­lu­si­vely mine, there was no rea­son to change this set-up.

Des­pite my pro­tests, my expla­na­tion that it was not neces­sary, that it was actually incon­ve­nient and would hin­der my work (at least ini­tially), the woman won’t budge. This is such a mis­gui­ded mother knows best power play that I’m having a hard time unders­tan­ding it. Though I know I could easily get this taken care of behind her back with a phone call, I can’t seem to go there.

What is misery if it can’t be shared?

Peace

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30 Responses to “Misery Shared”

  1. benNo Gravatar says:

    I’d want to get all hoity-toity and tell her “look lady I’m a frig­gin analyst — you hire sec­re­ta­ries” “give me my girl back”…geesh.

    Because it’s not your style the axe is a good idea.
    ben´s last blog ..Ways of Seeing

  2. Well, con­grats any­way on the new posi­tion.
    Ster­ling (Chip) Camden´s last blog ..Regex Anglo­rum

  3. caseyNo Gravatar says:

    I’d settle for an assis­tant of any kind.

    It’s a simi­lar set up at my firm. The resource pool, mar­ke­ting, and public rela­tions are HR, the rest are dif­fe­rent hire mostly aca­de­mic based. Here the HR peo­ple get touchy because they don’t feel res­pec­ted, so it’s not worth it to tan­gle with them. Let them win, or pre­tend to res­pect, them and you can bet­ter get what you want from them.

  4. gNo Gravatar says:

    Don’t sweat it.

    My assis­tants switch around all the time. No con­sis­tency. There are times that I have to do my own assis­ting, when I have no assis­tant (tech­ni­cally called a bar-back), it all works out.

    ;)
    g´s last blog ..Another Poten­tial Money Maker

  5. RichNo Gravatar says:

    Hope­fully HR doesn’t know about your blog or you run the risk of being doo­ced for even airing your grief. Seems the sweet is often accom­pa­nied by the bit­ter. Con­grats on the pro­mo­tion — sounds like impor­tant work you’re doing.

    I also don’t know what it feels like to have an assis­tant (I’m kind of a one-off in my depart­ment and thus report directly to the Engi­nee­ring Direc­tor); hope­fully the new assis­tant will be com­pe­tent, friendly, and res­pect your talen­ted brains over your youth­ful beauty.

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      HR can’t fire me, I am not their emplo­yee on any level. I know that sounds arro­gant but it’s a fact. I do res­pect the work they do, but I think this women took pro­ving her power a little far.
      I doubt it will bother me for more than a day or two, but having met with , the assis­tant she wants to assign to me next week, I am not satis­fied with the arrangement.

  6. DougNo Gravatar says:

    Well, first of all, con­gra­tu­la­tions on your new posi­tion. Ain’t you fancy?

    Second, wel­come to the won­der­ful world of HR. This is one rea­son I’ve avoi­ded wor­king anywhere big enough to have such an office since I was at The Car­ter Cen­ter in the mid-90s.
    Doug´s last blog ..Sci­mi­tar

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      Not fancy — just hope to one day be able to con­sult while sur­fing in Tahiti. A neces­sary change.

      I can’t see you put­ting up with an HR depart­ment overs­tuf­fed with “managers”.

      I love them though, really I do.

  7. joeNo Gravatar says:

    Ah, an “I WANT MY LITTLE OFFICE IN OBSCURE LOCATION BACK” moment.

    Some­ti­mes you just have to move on. In this case I don’t think it unfair of you to request the same assis­tant. Request not demand. Request in wri­ting.
    Twice.

    Then for­get it, unless you abso­lu­tely can’t work with the one assig­ned to you.

  8. ChrisJNo Gravatar says:

    Con­gra­tu­la­tions!

    I find that HR peo­ple often make any endea­vour more dif­fi­cult rather than easier. It’s too easy for them to think that HR is the cen­tral busi­ness rather than a sup­port to the cen­tral busi­ness.
    ChrisJ´s last blog ..There Are Busy Bees in Them Thar Woods

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      yea noti­ced that. It as nice when I had nothing to do with the office at all, and I never did anything but call in my needs from my office on the other side of town or from home. This office is much lar­ger and the buil­ding is brand span­king new, a floor with a research library and so on, but I actually am only in the office a cou­ple of days a week. The rest of the time except for mee­tings I will be doing the work at home.

  9. kaitNo Gravatar says:

    The good thing about teaching is no HR, the bad thing about teaching is there is no HR.

    I’d approach her again at least one more time. When you are doing the kind of work you do it seems that it would be bene­fi­cial to keep the synch­ro­ni­zed work rela­tionship going if it’s wor­ked so far.
    kait´s last blog ..Love My Calvin

  10. gillianNo Gravatar says:

    She didn’t think you nee­ded an older more expe­rien­ced assis­tant when wor­king for women because what…women don’t matter?

    That’s off track I know, but it just came to me that the excuse of her’s is weak.

    I am con­si­de­ring star­ting a blog when I start my resi­dency. Can’t do it now but maybe during resi­dency — if I get one.

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      There is something to be said for not seeing (in per­son) the peo­ple you are suppl­ying man­po­wer to.

      That would be inte­res­ting Gills .

  11. BathwaterNo Gravatar says:

    See I told you, you are going pla­ces. You hand­led the situa­tion more matu­rely than you appear too I recon.
    Bathwater´s last blog ..Che­ve­lle

  12. ChrisNo Gravatar says:

    Good job on the new job. Hope you like it. If you do any work on health care policy, defi­ni­tely let us know on here.
    Chris´s last blog ..Its All About Efficiency

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      I will be sure to let you know, I don’t fore­see it in this current posi­tion, or at least what I am wor­king on through October.

      Though I have been con­tac­ted by a state repre­sen­ta­tive to analyse some state poli­cies and give a sum­mary and review. It is an extra piece of resume buil­ding, no real policy making.

      I still have a term of school left.

  13. johnNo Gravatar says:

    The rea­son I like our HR is that they are remote.

    That is a nice job to get while still in school.

  14. piaNo Gravatar says:

    Con­grats!
    Stage a sit down strike. Since that won’t work – wel­come to the world of total bureauc­racy
    You might try explai­ning that you already have a mother who gives you twin sets. As that won’t work, and you don’t won’t to come off as disc­ri­mi­na­ting against older women (we all know you don’t, but…) try to make sure Denise gets a really great boss, and maybe in a cou­ple of months you could switch if you still want her back.…
    I can’t wait until you run the world

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      I had to finish up some work for my old job and start some work for this one and I believe I’ll be using Denise again next week. I gro­ve­led slightly, that and the women they assig­ned me had no logi­cal analy­sis skills, and was not much into research — unlike Denise. The HR actually unders­tood that the assis­tants with Denise’s qua­li­fi­ca­tions are to be assig­ned to the analysts, so I’m not sure why she mis­sed the boat on this one.

  15. jacobNo Gravatar says:

    It will work out. The HR peo­ple at the com­pany I wor­ked for before star­ting my own firm were in the base­ment — that hel­ped a lot.

    I bet you get her back.
    jacob´s last blog ..Tiger back at Brid­ges­tone Invitational

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      You’re so smart.

      A friend of mine just star­ted wor­king in HR at a hos­pi­tal here. She said their whole depart­ment is on the sub basement.