Give Me Your heart and I’ll Love You Till Tuesday

Sun­day nights notes on Tues­day this week, if you don’t mind. Having hou­se­ma­tes is coun­ter­pro­duc­tive to blog­ging, but favo­ra­ble to bar crawls at mid­night. I recom­mend having hou­se­ma­tes, if only tem­po­ra­rily. The situa­tion has hel­ped me rea­lize the dream of waking to the smell of cof­fee already bre­wed, even if not always the way I like it. Get­ting used to having peo­ple around almost all the time, even if not per­ma­nent, is dif­fi­cult but not world ending. My world ended of course, but the real world is still here. While I’m wor­king hard to be a friendly hou­se­mate, and mid­night con­ver­sa­tio­na­list extraor­di­naire I for­got to blog. Con­se­quently I’m upda­ting two blogs this evening.

Notes:
I was happy to see Gene­ra­ción Y on Time’s list of Top 25 Blogs of 2009. There was time I thought I was the only one rea­ding it, and of course TPM is pro­bably one of the most worthy blog reads of that genre around. And Hey Ya to Said the Gra­maphone, one of my first mp3 blog reads and a read to this day thanks to the defunct Revo­lu­tion in the Head, a blog which became All That Ever Mat­te­red some time in 2007. The rest..well, Gaw­ker media wore out their “I’m too hip for my ass” atti­tude years ago, though I kind of like Won­kette still. I still don’t know who the fuck Seth Gro­din is, except that he has something to do with the web and in some NYT article last year he said “he was get­ting fat due to sit­ting on his ass in front of the com­pu­ter too much”. That can’t be a good thing can it? It did prompt me to take a good look as my ass in the mirror though, and my jeans will be fore­ver gra­te­ful for that.

I also love the list of the most ove­rra­ted blogs because I was begin­ning to think I was the only one who has either never red them, or no lon­ger rea­ding them any longer.

Sur­prise, sur­prise, FB owns you. You, not me. I’ve not been back there since fresh­man year of college, so I really don’t care, except to say there are a lot of pla­ces online which own you once you spend enough time using them. I pos­sibly own you, if you com­ment here, though there appears to be some dis­pute about that. For god sake peo­ple, if you put it on the inter­net it is out there owned or not by you or someone else, it is out there, don’t be so stu­pid. And don’t whine like a baby after­words, or start stu­pid little Face­book groups to pro­test being owned.

Last but not least Should Be Famous has under­gone an overhaul and a change of pre­mise. Go check it out and feel free to leave feedback.

Title cour­tesy of from David Bowie Love You Till Tues­day.

Peace

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25 Comments

  • Life always seems to be bet­ter with room­ma­tes. At least to me it was. I have no clue who Seth Gro­din is either. I think most peo­ple in pop cul­ture are way overrated.

    Chris’s last blog post..Is It Ever Socialism?

  • You know fb owns me, but I don’t care. i won’t pro­test. I don’t get there much but it is the first place I go when I get to the com­pu­ter. I am wea­ning off. I don’t want to know all those peo­ple any more.

    I didn’t know “said the gra­mophone” was still around. cool.

    You can have my com­ments. I don’t want them, unless someone is paying you for them that is.

    g’s last blog post..Enough Said

    • I hear a lot of peo­ple and pla­ces own you g.

      If someone was paying me for them you’d be the last first to know.

  • “And don’t whine like a baby after­words, or start stu­pid little Face­book groups to pro­test being owned.”

    heh, heh,

    btw that list was bet­ter than most, with a cou­ple of excep­tions I’d keep most of it.

    I read the fame blog, like the idea and the poem. ;)

  • That’s why I took off the option of uploa­ding my posts who­le­sale to FB. I don’t like any­body else having my con­tent to do with as they wish.

    And, on a side note, it’s kind of sad to see Should Be Famous change its pre­mise. I had hoped other peo­ple would recom­mend some good blogs for me. I hardly ever get to check other people’s blogs aside from the ones I read already that I was hoping someone else could do the dig­ging for me.

    But, since I’m one of the guilty par­ties who never took the time to recom­mend, I guess I can’t reap what I didn’t sow. I’m just glad I wasn’t one of the ones who e-mailed you to review my site. My site pales com­pare to yours and I would have been very sur­pri­sed if anyone else recom­men­ded it to you.

    Yet, for some rea­son, you’ve always stuck by rea­ding it, Miss Coo­per. I think that means more to me than the fact you revie­wed it any­way without any promp­ting. Thanks for the vote of confidence.

    mojo shivers’s last blog post..I Hear Babies Cry, I Watch Them Grow, They’ll Learn Much More, Than I’ll Ever Know, And I Think To Myself, What A Won­der­ful World

  • I like Bleat, Go 2 Green and Bad Astro­nomy, Krug­man. I don’t really think of his as a blog, even though it is. A bet­ter selec­tion than I usually read. Can’t say I’ve ever read the Goo­gle blog, and don’t intend to start.

    I’m sorry I never made it it to fame, this will give me a chance yes? I don’t blame you, there isn’t that kind of time.

    johnm’s last blog post..Tem­pe­rate Cities Emit Less Carbon

    • Sure
      It’s your big chance John. Bad Astro­nomy kind of rock but all those Dis­co­very blogs on my rea­der make it way too heavy.

  • I’m too old for mid­night bar crawls, and not having alone time is something I couldn’t handle, but cof­fee ready for the drin­king is temp­ting. Oh, that’s right. The hubs makes it on Sun­days. As far as owning goes, I’d rather be owned by teh intra­netz than the state, or BlueC­ross, or the banks. You know. All the usual sus­pects. At least with the web, I might be famous. ;)

    kellypea’s last blog post..Food Stamp Soap Box

    • “As far as owning goes, I’d rather be owned by teh intra­netz than the state, or BlueC­ross, or the banks. You know. All the usual sus­pects. At least with the web, I might be famous.”

      Exactly. lol

  • I bet­ter go post or I’ll never make that list.

    Do not dis the house mates, espe­cially if they are making cof­fee. I hate making coffee.

    Wait. Isn’t it bet­ter to be owned than disowned?

    I’m sorry I could have recom­men­ded some good blogs but I couldn’t have writ­ten about them like you did. Does that make me a bad per­son?
    Don’t ans­wer that. I won’t do anything until I see the work of others. I don’t want to emba­rrass myself.

    casey’s last blog post..Bris­tol Palin on Abstinence

  • It’s not actually cer­tain whether or not these EULAs are actually legal Of course, like all cor­po­rate enti­ties, FB lives by Caveat Emptor.

    But those stu­pid groups that pro­tes­ted it? Got Face­book to change it’s policy. Doesn’t seem point­less to me. =P

    EsotericWombat’s last blog post..Is he even trying to hide it?

    • I guess because I think expen­ding energy on a site like that is was­te­ful when there are bet­ter thing to pro­test com­plain about or take care of but if social site are the cen­ter of one’s uni­verse I guess it would seem important.

  • That would be one thing if this were just about Face­book, but I don’t see it that way. As an artist of any stripe, ownership of your work is the Most Impor­tant Thing You Have Going For You. And like you said, this sort of lan­guage isn’t just limi­ted to Face­book Mys­pace has had it too. Mys­pace, which nowa­days is pri­ma­rily known as a means for musi­cians to show­case their songs. At some point or another (I for­get if it’s still in place), AOL had a simi­lar policy about things trans­mit­ted via its ins­tant mes­sa­ging. Which means that if you’re colla­bo­ra­ting with someone else over ins­tant mes­sage to write a screen­play, they could attempt to claim ownership of key concepts.

    And they’re always hid­den insi­diously within lengthy agree­ments that were spe­ci­fi­cally desig­ned so that end users would ignore them. Yes, we should be care­ful, but it’s just as impor­tant that it’s made abso­lu­tely clear that this Will Not Stand. A bud­ding artist has enough to con­tend with as it stands without having to deal with cor­po­rate inte­llec­tual pro­perty har­ves­ters trying to foist away from them that which is right­fully theirs.

    And the effort expen­ded to create or join a face­book group pro­tes­ting it is con­si­de­rably less than the effort you took to write this post, or I to res­pond to it. The oppor­tu­nity cost to stand up to any injus­tice, no mat­ter how small, is never a good rea­son not to stand up to it. It’s true that there are limits to what we can make noise about, but I’ve yet to meet anyone who has tes­ted those limits to any extent.

    EsotericWombat’s last blog post..Is he even trying to hide it?

    • Eh it doesn’t change my opi­nion. If you want to keep it then pro­mote it another way the inter­net is not set up neces­sa­rily to pro­tect works like that it is too mas­sive. If rules were esta­blished there would be a pro­test over that.

      As I don’t use rou­ti­nely FB or My Space it’s not that impor­tant to me.

    • I also want to say that if you post your­self sin­ging a song you wrote in my com­ments I’ll let you keep it. Cuz you’re spe­cial. ;)

  • I have had posts taken by peo­ple who pro­mi­sed to pay, even asked for all my iden­tif­ying info. Then didn’t pay

    I love the few com­men­ters I get and know more peo­ple read my blog as the emails keep coming in. Honestly ans­we­ring emails from peo­ple I don’t know is burdensome

    I’m having a hard time blog­ging and don’t know if I should con­ti­nue, but I will always com­ment on cer­tain blogs:)

    pia’s last blog post..

    • Eh why should they pay they can scrap you con­tent, mine is scrap­ped all the time I stop­ped worr­ying about it because there is no time. The inter­net has it’s pro­blems ‚most pro­ble­ma­tic for peo­ple like you — actual writers.

  • I some­ti­mes wish I had a roo­mate. Well, maybe some­ti­mes is too strong a word. Let’s go with rarely. But it does hap­pen. It is nice to know there’s a living, breathing crea­ture nearby. Hardly ever.

    Bone’s last blog post..Ssss-aaaa-ffff-eeee-tttt-yyyy Blog

  • I appre­ciate you allo­wing me to be your room­mate, but I know you can’t hear my sno­ring that far down the hall, my cof­fee is pretty good I think, but Ellen’s cof­fee stinks — dish­wa­ter. I was thri­lled to see my first date refe­rred to on the inter­net. It’s so worth living with you jut for that. ;)
    I know you don’t read her, but I still like Dooce.

    Oh, I might write a poem about black dres­ses. You’ll have to help me. lol

    kait’s last blog post..Ale­xan­der McQueen