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Archive for January, 2009

Love An Artist Marry a Banker — Redux

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

I apo­lo­gize for Paul Anka. I didn’t mean to cause undo suf­fe­ring, but I believe the damage is reparable.

I’m not very ener­ge­tic today, I was up at 6 and at a “wor­king group” at 8. Satur­day mor­ning “wor­king groups” should be ille­gal. Either way I was home before noon and ready to kick the day in the ass when I sud­denly became nau­seous, con­se­quently I’ve not moved much from the front of my com­pu­ter all day, though the bed is loo­king ever more inviting.

Due to the uni­ma­gi­na­ble afo­re­men­tio­ned horror I inflic­ted upon you, I felt the need for a com­pen­sa­tory post.

I was rea­ding through pie­ces about a NYT article It’s the Eco­nomy, Girl­friend. Some of the pie­ces refe­ren­ced a blog called dating a ban­ker anony­mous, mostly a fluffy little blog which some peo­ple seem to be taking seriously and some are laughing off.

I know you all care no more more than I do about the situa­tion of peo­ple whose part­ners are preoc­cu­pied with the disap­pea­rance of their for­tune, the demise of their finan­cial sec­tor job or sta­tus, and the hardly real hardships and life dis­tur­ban­ces they have encoun­te­red, but it did remind me of a post I wrote back in July of 2005, while wor­king for the sum­mer at my mother’s gallery. The post was rather silly and had nothing to do with ban­kers per say, it was more a mini sta­te­ment on the social sig­ni­fi­cance one women put on the fact her daugh­ter was marr­ying one. It also led to an exit line I said I’d always remem­ber. The line was Love an Artist Marry a Ban­ker, it was also the title of the post, so check it out if you are bored.

Turns out it might not have been the best advice after all, though I don’t sup­pose the daugh­ter had to keep him if it didn’t turn out as she expec­ted. ( thank god for that) I won­der, not often, or not at all really until this post, but I do won­der how it all tur­ned out for that woman’s daugh­ter, and if over 3 years later those expec­ta­tions were met.

Good luck to all trying to “Stand By Your BANKER Man”.

“Who’s Sorry Now” see­med a bit too cruel.

Peace