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We Are Family

August 5th, 2008 by cooper

My noto­rious — for rea­sons unna­med and before my time — 91 year old great aunt hasn’t been out of her home over­loo­king the Hud­son River in years. She will is arrive here for an over­night stay tomo­rrow, a rest-stop while she waits for other family to take her visit her sis­ter — another great aunt of mine — in North Caro­lina. Due to health con­cerns on both sides it could be the last time the two sis­ters will see each other. A sad but neces­sary trip.

I am but the second stop of four. My great aunt doesn’t fly. Her jour­neys are in minus­cule inc­re­ments, solely by auto­mo­bile. The family is more than willing to faci­li­tate this ven­ture, wha­te­ver it entails. Choo­sing stops with easy high­way access got me pulled from the list for this one. Yes, my family is large and spread around the world, you can bet there are lists. A spreadsheet now I think.

I hear she doesn’t remem­ber things as well as she used to, and hasn’t been well. My cou­sin is sta­ying here as well, so I’m not going not be alone with her. She’s a funny women, she’s lived alone in her Hud­son River abode since the death of her hus­band many years ago, she has a cou­ple of chil­dren who visit her regu­larly and the cou­sin who is brin­ging her here is her grandchild, another grandchild will be pic­king her up and dri­ving her to Vir­gi­nia. Tomo­rrow eve­ning will be inte­res­ting. I have brought work home this after­noon, so I can start the clean up this joint. I am making sure there is not a lot of junk han­ging around to con­fuse her.

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On my way home I retur­ned two Natio­nal Geo­graphic maga­zi­nes to my doc­tors office. I wan­ted to aban­don the per­sis­tent fee­ling of if not guilt unea­si­ness I’ve felt ever since I inad­ver­tently left the last two issues in my shoul­der bag on the way out. Per­sia: Ancient Soul of Iran and The Virunga Gori­llas were of inte­rest to me, but I didn’t steal them. I honestly for­got they were in my bag which is where I put them when I left the wai­ting room to embark on the obli­ga­tory thirty minute wait in the doc­tors actual office.

The good news is they found some gori­llas, now my sug­ges­tion is leave them alone. Ebola is there for a rea­son, the curse pla­ced upon those who mess with the gorilla’s. Maybe, pos­sibly, not likely but worth considering?


image abcnews.com

What a great body guard he’d make though.
He reminds me of my brother.

Peace

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15 Responses to “We Are Family”

  1. kellypeaNo Gravatar says:

    Will look for­ward to hea­ring about your great aunt and her visit. Ninety-one years is quite an accom­plish­ment. Our family is rela­ti­vely young by com­pa­ri­son, and most likely, no where as inte­res­ting as yours sounds. Of course, maybe a bet­ter word for mine is noto­rious. I’m too cha­llen­ged for a gori­lla segue at this point in the day…He is a hunk, tho…

  2. GNo Gravatar says:

    Good luck with that.

    I’ve “inad­ver­tently” taken maga­zi­nes before, never retur­ned them though.
    I see a little resem­blance, its been awhile but maybe it’s the hind end reminds me of Josh.

  3. mojo shiversNo Gravatar says:

    See? You return maga­zi­nes that weren’t yours, Miss Coo­per. Meanwhile, I give the guy at Wendy’s a five the other night for my food and he gives me seven­teen dollars in change. I’m such a stinker.

  4. DougNo Gravatar says:

    Here I thought I was one of the last.

  5. kaitNo Gravatar says:

    If you’re over 80 you’re noto­rious by default.

    I’ve taken maga­zi­nes. It hap­pens. Brin­ging them back, no.

    Have fun with great granny aunt.

    My brother too, must be something about brothers.,

    • cooperNo Gravatar says:

      usually the maga­zi­nes suck and are fif­teen years old or so but these were good enough to want to read so what can I say.

      It was fun. She goes to bed at 9 though. ;)

  6. CeleblogNo Gravatar says:

    Nice post, thank you.

  7. JohnNo Gravatar says:

    My oldest rela­tive in 98, he gets around well. Have fun.
    Bet­ter noto­rious family than boring family.

  8. sauerkrautNo Gravatar says:

    was at the eye doctor’s today and pic­ked up a NG with an article on Iran. perhaps even the same edi­tion. but I left it there. too many maga­zi­nes at my house any­ways. I spent most of my time at the back of the edi­tion rea­ding about aste­roids and some island off wes­tern africa (bioka?).

    my great aunt is almost 87 and sharp as a whip. doesn’t get around too well but has her youn­gest sis­ter as the hou­se­mate. they both visit quite often.

    guy out back is in his mid-70’s. his mother visits once or twice a month. the dog knows what her cane is for and doesn’t yip too much when she’s within reach.

    guess you should never unde­res­ti­mate the elderly.

  9. cooperNo Gravatar says:

    I have too many maga­zi­nes too, so I wasn’t heart­bro­ken to take them back. I couldn’t toss them of course, that would have been almost blasphemy.