Lonely and NOW disgusted.

This is why, though I believe in equa­lity for all and know there is a long way to go, I’m not fond of screeching illo­gi­cal feminism.

The Pre­si­dent of NOW NY put out a press release dra­ma­ti­cally tit­led “Sena­tor Ken­nedy Betrays Women by Not Stan­ding For Hillary Clin­ton for President.”

In a fine effort to humi­liate all woman, she shows her­self to be the ste­reoty­pi­cal pre­mens­trual female una­ble to think clearly during that time of the month. The woman, obviously at some per­so­nal psycho­lo­gi­cal tip­ping point of her own, emba­rras­ses woman everywhere by sho­wing just how ridi­cu­lous and illo­gi­cal a femi­nist screa­ming in unmi­ti­ga­ted rage can appear.

Though it appears there is no rea­so­ning, only anger, behind this, and absent from her com­plaint is any disap­point­ment in power­ful woman who have endor­sed Obama, her rea­so­ning is there, under it all, it’s just not sound. To be on the side of woman you must vote for a woman, even if that woman is a power hungry minx, who is being cons­tantly prop­ped up by her
hus­band, and has a less than ste­llar pro­gres­sive voting history.

Les­son num­ber one: There is no book, so wha­te­ver book you are going by throw it away.

Grad school is a place full of colla­bo­ra­tion and con­sul­ta­tion which seems, des­pite it all, to have poten­tial for a cer­tain degree of lone­li­ness, the lone­li­ness which comes with kno­wing what you do is more yours, and yours alone, than anything you have done in the past.

Enjoy your lonely, (con­cert), song of choice.

The real coo­per will return some­time later this week.

Peace

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26 Comments

  • I always thought situa­tions like this were more pre­ci­sely cove­red by rule six of The Aus­tra­lian Bru­ces Faculty Rules:

    There is no rule six!

  • It seems to be too long since I visi­ted…
    You have a great new look (and I liked both the songs).
    In Fin­land women are among the most equal in the world and I think our Pre­si­dent (woman) got her votes equally from men and women.
    It is so odd, that when I was young I never noti­ced any disc­ri­mi­na­tion because of being a woman, but lately it has become more evi­dent. Could it be pos­si­ble that the men are begin­ning to fear for their posi­tion :)

  • The press release see­med out of con­trol, like a kid get­ting pis­sed off at a friend for pla­ying with other friends or not pic­king him first for the team.

    “the lone­li­ness which comes with kno­wing what you do is more yours, and yours alone, than anything you have done in the past” is a great line

    I heard there was a book, I’ve yet to find it.

  • Tell the real Coo­per I said hi, and thought that was going to be The House of The Rising Sun up top.

  • This Coo­per will do :) i never called myself a femi­nist as I always des­pi­sed the anti man bias

    I strongly believe that a woman should have degrees and her own money – I’m told that makes me a femi­nist. I also don’t believe in taking a man’s name but that’s per­so­nal – doesn’t make me a “feminist.”

    Most of the peo­ple who have given me breaks have been men. Men who appre­ciate strong women who don’t act stri­dent but have inner strength

    The Hillary of 1992 was some­body I res­pec­ted. I loved her “mis­gui­ded” health care pro­po­sals. We might not be in the mess we’re in if that had passed

    For her to disa­vow her past – I can’t for­get or forgive

    Just read that the per­son who was given the most publi­city 1/21 – 1/27 was Bill. Every time he opens his mouth he gets another vote for Obama – and I did like Bill despite.…Hope he keeps it open this week

    You will learn Oli­via to ignore “super femi­nists” who don’t look past gen­der. They’re absurd and I hope not influential

    I hope we have lear­ned to think for our­sel­ves – as a society but…

  • I think we all have to find out that any –ist or –ism gene­rally carries with it a too preachy and too con­des­cen­ding atti­tude towards its polar oppo­site, and even a “could care less” atti­tude toward mode­rate, well adjus­ted thinking.

    Grad school can’t be all that bad Coo­per. Try thin­king of worse things for you, like wor­king at McDonald’s without the perk of eating the fries ever, or something in your worst career nightmare.

    Since there is no book, you are wri­ting one for your­self, thus the need to cons­tantly gather infor­ma­tion from a wide array of “res­pec­ta­ble” resour­ces. You get to explore it — try to work out ‘new thinking’ — and ulti­ma­tely, some gover­ning body will say, “here’s your degree. Now go make money.”

    Somehow, you aren’t as lonely as you think you are. Hey, you got us blog­gers to pon­ti­fi­cate to now. ;)

    Try to cheer up! (It was –2 last night with a 40+ MPH wind blo­wing while I deli­ve­red papers to porches and dri­ve­ways. All 215 of them. Do you think I was happy? Well, two shock­wa­ves helped…)

  • Iro­ni­cally, in Obama’s law school class were two women (dating at the time) who were refe­rred to as the Shrill and the Shriek. Nearly everything revol­ved around their gen­der. If it had a penis, they abso­lu­tely hated it.

    Hillary had a gol­den moment in New Hampshire when she got teary-eyed. At that moment, she con­nec­ted with many women (inc­lu­ding my uber-conservative S.I.L. who hates her) who had wor­ked their way into suc­cess­ful careers only to have their female gen­ders used as a lever to sepa­rate them from open opportunities.

    As soon as Bill star­ted ope­ning his mouth, that moment was lost.

    There is a fair ques­tion floa­ting around: if Hillary wins the office, who will hold the reins of power — Hill or Bill?

    Most of Ame­rica, I sus­pect, is hoping that Bill and that stai­ned dress will stay the hell out of our minds.

  • I’ve been paying atten­tion to golf and foot­ball. I am trying to ignore poli­tics. I sho­wed m wife that press release, she snor­ted. My wife always said law school was lonely for much the same rea­son. When you all of a sud­den know it’s all on you the ham­mer comes down.

    That is what donuts are for.

    Both great “lonely” songs.

  • MoJo: No Rule Six?????

    Leena: Thanks the songs are great yes. I don’t get around too much since school star­ted but I will be visi­ting soon.

    casey: I think I had it once, lost it once I hit college.

    dOUG: I told her she said hi to you too. House of the Rising…lol god no.

    Pia: God bless the child and all that right?

    Jason: Well at this point I can cer­tainly see I’d be an expert at wor­king at Dun­kin Donuts.

    Bill: As I have only heard of it and wasn’t par­ti­ci­pa­ting in the democ­racy of this country at the time I can’t say too much, but from what I’ve read it’s best we not have to look at his face again.

    jacob: I love woman who snort.

  • love your blog — never saw the old one but this is great. lots of goo­dies to look at.

  • Coo­per, you called this one exactly as it is.

    I can’t resist saying: This Ms. is thin­king with her Bush.

  • You’re get­ting cyni­cal Coo­per. Grad school does that. It is a lonely expe­rience, but a neces­sary one. i found the only true cha­llen­ging cour­ses and igno­red the stu­dents – become friendly with the pro­fes­sors. They need stu­dents like you.
    I have Black & White Night in video and should con­vert it or buy it new

  • I am invol­ved in a poli­ti­cal group on yahoo and the women of the group brought up this article you men­tio­ned. They were also dis­gus­ted by it and pretty mad about what she said.

  • An unfor­tu­nate post from a pre­si­dent of a sub­set of a very good orga­ni­za­tion. You desc­ri­bed it per­fectly. Looks like she asc­ri­bes to the group think theory, and that press release makes all woman in her orga­ni­za­tion look bad.

    Good songs, I always like songs to go along with my lonely.

    Grad school:
    You knew it would be that way going in. I like the way you desc­ri­bed it — “more yours than anything you’ve done in the past”.

    I wish you the best of the best coo­per, and hope you get out from under one of these day and flip me that email I asked for. ;)

  • You going soft on us Coo­per? (Like the stay-puff marsh­me­llow in Ghostbusters???)

    Or maybe tur­ning into a really smart Homer Simpson?

  • Riiight. That’s not bia­sed or disc­ri­mi­na­tory at all. Our group wants to be dealt with through free­dom and equal treat­ment, but we don’t want to allow any other groups to expe­rience it, just us.

  • “Power hungry minx was the best line”. ;)

    It’s the pro­blem with groups, no one is allo­wed to think for them­sel­ves and still be part of one.

    Exce­llent videos.

  • Keep giving it to Hillary and I may fall in love with thee.….….The world is not black and it is not white.….IT IS GRAY with all the sha­des between.

  • tsduff: Thanks, and welcome.

    inde: Bushes legacy, I’m afriad, will be that exact saying.

    pia: I saw it on public tele­vi­sion, they show those things all the time, almost bought the dvd but I was all tap­ped out for the year. ;)

    Kevin: It was so obviously stu­pid I’m sur­pri­sed the woman couldn’t see it.

    John: yea, yea and yea.

    John P: If I’m going soft it’s only because of the donuts.

    Dave: Can we all just assume other peo­ple have a brain.

    Not that ever­yone uses their brain, but still.

    G: They are good aren’t they.

    Kak: Howe­ver, I will still vote for her rather than someone who is against choice, or in any­way asso­cia­ted with the Repu­bli­cans out there currently. My god what a sad group they have. I can’t believe Repu­bli­cans are not fee­ling rather nau­sea­ted right now.

  • It’s a Python refe­rence, silly Cooper.

  • I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. We want to put a woman in the Oval Office. But sweet mer­ci­ful fuck have some stan­dards, people!

    All I nee­ded to know about Hillary to dis­qua­lify her for my vote was her tea­ming up with Lie­ber­man to sup­port cen­sorship. And she didn’t stop giving me rea­sons after that.

    Every ideo­logy has a screa­ming illo­gi­cal fac­tion. And they’re the ones we hear the most. Which is, I sup­pose, part of the rea­son why I disa­vow most ideo­lo­gies that have a name. You’re clearly a Coo­pe­rist. Which is part of the rea­son why I keep coming back even when we disa­gree hard.

    I hated that SOAD song the first time I heard it but it it’s gro­wing on me.

    Allow me to offer up my hum­ble contribution:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jA72ewKKWtc

  • Just came back to lis­ten to the music in the second part of the post (thanks for the mood) — also saw your com­ment ans­wer. I goo­gled to see if anyone else had thought of that sta­te­ment. They haven’t, so I bet­ter regis­ter the tra­de­mark. ;-)

    Seriously, that per­son is under­mi­ning the orga­ni­za­tion she speaks for. I found it hard to believe that the real news story is not a parody. The Ger­man word for her sta­te­ments is Eklat.

  • I must say that was one of the stu­pi­dest rea­sons to put out a press release that I’ve ever read. :o (

    The con­cert was much bet­ter. :D

  • Chi­ming in late, most of my points have already been posi­ted by those above. And, as usual, most have some great points. All I have to say is with Mar­cia Pap­pas at the helm of NOW, perhaps they should change their name to LATER.

  • My head’s been in a hole so I’ll have to look into this. Anyone who “screeches” this mes­sage, whether women, or other, dis­gusts me. It’s ama­zing that peo­ple don’t use their own brains. I can truly say that when I lis­ten to Hilary, I don’t hear a woman. When I lis­ten to Obama, I don’t hear a black man. It’s ama­zing that so many haven’t got­ten past the sur­face of things.

    As far as grad school goes — or the sub­se­quent career — you have called it. It is yours, and it can be very iso­la­ting unless you are one to call others to your way of thin­king. And when you achieve that, it is still lonely, even though there are many who may count on you. You can do it, coo­per. Look at what you already do.

  • moho: yes,silly me.

    Wom­bat: I’ve always liked that song for some rea­son. Yes a coo­peist, as you are a esotericwombatist.…ah, your is also good. ;)

    Inde: Ekiat, I like that.

    Sheila: Con­certs usually are.;)

    Mor­gan: You may be right, how sad for them really.

    kelly­pea: I some­ti­mes think a hole is a good place to be some­ti­mes. I loo­king for­ward to my hole time. It was just a dread­ful anno­yance that screechy crap.