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Follow me — I Am Paying For Comments.

July 14th, 2007 by cooper

No more posts about blog­ging after today. It’s too easy. Back to poli­tics, social issues, sex(ism) and my non exis­tent sex life. This is last of the “non­sense while I get my feet wet at work” easy posts.

Spea­king of Paying for com­ments….. ( see pre­vious post)

Always a “no follo­wer” I have chan­ged my evil ways and joi­ned “the followers” — not in a “Moo­nie” way. Admit­tedly I didn’t know I was a “no follo­wer”. I may not have been a “no follo­wer” depen­ding on what tem­plate I was using. I guess. (still not sure on this one) I didn’t follow before, but now I do. At least I ins­ta­lled a plug in which sup­po­sedly makes me a follower.

I guess what this means is your com­ments will pro­duce link backs. I never knew about “no-follow” until recently and really don’t see the need for “do –follow” but some seem to think link backs impor­tant. The end result in a way is I GUESS I AM NOW PAYING FOR COMMENTS.

If this crea­tes a catas­trophe I’m going to stop follo­wing again.

Also if.….….

You tell me “good post” I will delete you, you must tell me why.

If you say “I agree” and you don’t ela­bo­rate – unless I am fami­liar with you.

You say “you suck”, unless follo­wed by a rea­so­na­ble expla­na­tion, you will also be deleted.

If there is a leak through of com­ments on how to get a big dick for ins­tance,
(I have very little use for big dicks, they are plen­ti­ful believe me and easy to find), or how to get presc­rip­tion drugs without a presc­rip­tion (I went to school in a very large city I know how to get drugs without a prescription).

Too much of all of he above and I will have to go back to the ranks of “non-followers”.

You asked for it. Just remem­ber “Every breath You Take Every Step you take”.…..

— —  —  —  —  —  —  — -

I’ve been thin­king of a way to note new blogs I read and like. I am not fond of memes, or awards really. Not to be ungra­te­ful they are always well mea­ning, but I do think there are way too many of them lately. The whole blo­gesphere has become one big meme, and some blogs are nothing but links and awards. For one who works a real job, and has only so much time to write in a blog, it does take away from wri­ting what I want to write.

That having been said I do want to be able to adver­tise new blogs I read and like. I have done some tech­no­rati lin­king and feed rea­der sign-up, will start doing more of that, but I am also going to start a wid­get and put it on my sidebar.This wid­get will be chan­ged every few days/weeks (unde­ci­ded), and will con­sist of picture/links to a new blog or two, it will be a blog or two I recently star­ted to read regu­larly. Sort of like the old blog-explosion “rent-a-blog” but so much bet­ter, peo­ple might actually click on the link. Who knows.

On the same note I have a wid­get now which inc­lu­des my early adopters.

Early Adop­ter in this case defi­nes blog­gers who ( adop­ted me back in the day) star­ted rea­ding and com­men­ting here back when I was on blogs­pot, called “Alice”, and really suc­ked. The first six months of my blog­ging life, that make it or break it time. I know I suc­ked for lon­ger than six months but just go with me here. Early adop­ters are still here des­pite it all. The list is not com­plete but it’s a start.

Well the day is fine, you all get to it.

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32 Responses to “Follow me — I Am Paying For Comments.”

  1. MalinNo Gravatar says:

    I just stum­bled on your site through my inco­ming links list. At first I won­de­red where the hell the link was but then I dis­co­ve­red that you were one of those roc­kin girl blog­gers that was lin­ked to a real post (and not just the blog index) so you got a track­back from me.
    I’m happy that I got here. I like your type of writing ;)

    And oh yeah, the do follow move­ment is still a huge craze around the net…

    Now I’m going to stalk around your site some more!

  2. johnNo Gravatar says:

    It sounds like the fair thing to do.

    To flat­ter and follow others, without being flat­te­red and follo­wed in turn, is but a state of half enjoyment.

    Jane Aus­ten

    I had to look this up. ;)

  3. caseyNo Gravatar says:

    I knew that Jane Aus­ten quote off the top of my head, wish I had got­ten here first.

    That is a totally new take on early adop­ters. I think “live­jour­nal” whe­ne­ver I see that term.

    I enjoy the serious and the crap.

    Didn’t know what a “Moo­nie” was,

  4. woohoo! *hugs*

    Also, I don’t abide suc­kage in my rea­ding habits and didn’t then either. So don’t insult my tas­tes =P

  5. DougNo Gravatar says:

    If I had never seen your pic­ture I could still recog­nize you by the con­fu­sion you’re cau­sing me lately. You may delete any com­ment I leave without explai­ning why.

    OK, so back to sexism.

  6. robotmanNo Gravatar says:

    I can almost hear you spea­king the first few paragraphs.

    If I were you I would “no follow”. You don’t need to do it. Why worry about more spam and crap comments?

  7. sauerkrautNo Gravatar says:

    I’m follo­wing the lea­der, the lea­der, the lea­der
    I’m follo­wing the lea­der where ever she might go.

    meow.

    I need to start wri­ting more opi­nions and pos­ting fewer online artic­les. My blog suf­fers from major suc­kage. Yours, for­tu­na­tely, does not. Gives me something inte­res­ting to read before I get into the tri­via game areas.

  8. piaNo Gravatar says:

    like Doug I’m an early adop­ter. Unlike Doug you’re not cau­sing me confusion

    Love your com­ment policy. Though I’m not a follo­wer have usually always dele­ted com­ments that bore no rele­vance to the post.

  9. cooperNo Gravatar says:

    Malin: Thanks for stop­ping by — the stal­king is cool.

    john: Eh , we’ll see. I’ve already had a cou­ple com­ments I’ve had to delete but they loo­ked like spam break-throughs.

    casey: I don’t believe that for a second.
    Oh There is crap here?

    EW: I would never dream of insul­ting your taste, except in the case of baseball.

    Doug: One of my major goals in life — to con­fuse the dawg.

    robot­man: I’m not sure it mat­ters really, we’ll see.

    sauer­kraut: I am going to shor­ten your name to SK from now on, I’m lazy.
    I’m nappy tp be one step above tri­via, makes me feel special.

    pia: I knew you’d unders­tand. Explain it to the dawg some­time. Yeah, I always delete com­ments like that, I just don’t want more of them.

  10. I think it’s a great idea to fea­ture new blogs. Some­ti­mes I’ve found them by clic­king the “next blog” thing in the goo­gle task bar, or just clic­ked into the last upda­ted blog list that keeps scro­lling by. Someone asked in a recent post at my own blog about how to find new blogs — so maybe you have a few tips, too.

  11. cooperNo Gravatar says:

    Inde: I hadn’t read new blogs in some time until I star­ted using “my blog log” a few months ago. It takes some scro­lling but you can find some delight­ful blogs if you can get past the spam. Blog Cata­log I find somewhat more spammy as peo­ple are just trying to get links cons­tantly but even there you can find good blogs if you scroll. I often just look at links on blogs I read. I’ve also found a cou­ple at 9rules, not a whole lot, as most of their really good blogs are techie or web 2.0 or “blog talk” based but it’s a good place to go if you are loo­king for info on how to get your blog in shape code and design wise.

    I some­ti­mes find sites I don’t per­so­nally have an inte­rest but if I think a cer­tain friend will like it I send the links on to friends.

  12. lol

    ***************

    Just joking. Someone once left a com­ment like that on my blog. I guess it’s bet­ter than nothing because at least I know they put enough energy to punch a few but­tons, but… really? That’s all they have to say to me? lol?

    Any­way, I took the “no-follow” out a while ago. From what I unders­tand it takes the evil Goo­gle spider-robots away from inde­xing your own wri­ting but I guess it’s fair because a blog is still a back-and-forth bet­ween wri­ter and rea­der. Something like that.

  13. adamNo Gravatar says:

    i’ve had dofo­llow on my blog for a while, and it hasn’t chan­ged my com­ment spam levels at all. blog­ging about blog­ging is defi­na­tely easier.

  14. Ev NucciNo Gravatar says:

    I’m with you Coo­per. I don’t want any­more (awards). I gave you one anyway…but I don’t care what you do with it. Go look at it then…walk away if you want…I don’t care.

    But this was a great post. I so frea­king tech­no­lo­gi­cally cha­llen­ged I don’t know how to do the “no follow” or “follow” thing. So everybody’s gotta wait till I get a new design…etc., and get all that tech­no­lo­gi­cal stuff wor­ked out at one time!

  15. Ev NucciNo Gravatar says:

    Oooh Coo­per hugs to you…I love the big dick com­ment!!! Its precious!

  16. cooperNo Gravatar says:

    Peo­ple in the Sun: From now on known as PITS unless you stre­nuously object.

    Those I always delete unless unless I’ve actually said something hys­te­ri­cal — believe me that is rare. Any­way in that case I expect a ROTFL.

    adam: Well so far I’ve noti­ced very little dif­fe­rence. My newer spam­mers have deci­ded to call them­sel­ves by the names of peo­ple who com­ment here all the time. I find this rather amusing.

    Ev: I have deci­ded to make an award page where I post all awards. It will be quite color­ful. I may go back pretty far maybe even list all memes I have done there — a fun page. We’ll see, it is like time just isn’t there any­more to make the blog look decent.

    What’s a girl to do?

    You may now be cur­sed with many of those big dick com­ments your­self, beware. I’ll hop on over.

  17. GoldyNo Gravatar says:

    I am a fan of the no follow club and wish there was an easy way to imple­ment it in typepad.

  18. GoldyNo Gravatar says:

    Meant “do follow”.

  19. mojo shiversNo Gravatar says:

    I wouldn’t say I was an early adop­ter as much as I would say that I recog­ni­zed that your blog was about something. More impor­tantly, I recog­ni­zed it was about something that I wasn’t neces­sa­rily about. It’s like I was saying about my friend’s wri­ting just today, if there are two things your site’s always been about, Miss Coo­per, it’s about pro­vi­ding inte­res­ting con­tent in an inte­res­ting way.

    So, in a way, I didn’t adopt your site as much as was tric­ked into falling in love with it.

  20. JACOBNo Gravatar says:

    I hate rea­ding when peo­ple write about blog­ging, but
    when you write about blog­ging it’s funny, enter­tai­ning and true.

    I was almost an early adop­ter. I think I only mis­sed it by nine months or so. I am not a ram­pant blog­ger — more a ram­pant reader.

    I don’t know if “Blog­ger” follows. I finally was able to get in to my old account there and am using word­press almost exc­lu­si­vely now.

  21. Joe GNo Gravatar says:

    I don’t think you should be follo­wing peo­ple around, it’s just not like you.

    If I get a blog will I be pla­ced in the early adop­ter sea­ting over there. — —  —  — >

  22. BillyWarholNo Gravatar says:

    can we still think outside the Box??

    ;))

    i laf­fed i won or was awar­ded the Sch­mooze Award + wan­ted to par­ti­ci­pate + it took me an ungodly amount of time about 4 hours to pull together Links to the 5 Blog­gers + 2 Links to the Ori­gi­na­tors + 1 Link to the Kind per­son who Honou­red me* i had to chuc­kle tho when i got only about 7 lousy com­ments back + i had to cajole one of the Ori­gi­na­tors into even doing that!! The real hila­rity star­ted when I saw that 2 Peo­ple who i had feted with da Sch­mooze pop­ped by (i could see their Faces on MyBlo­gLog + Blog­Ca­ta­log Wid­gets!!) + they didn’t even drop a FART in the com­ment Box!!! Like what the Hell is up with dat i ask of thee????

    Truth be told i get ZERO com­ments — hell i don’t even get SPAM comments!!!

    Beg­gars can’t be choo­zers so i’d be Happy + Thri­lled to get SEX of any kind!!

    Cheers NoWic­ked­Witch!! Billy ;))

  23. Yay! Give some link-love back to your rea­ders, I say. Nofo­llow doesn’t really stop the spam­mers, anyway.

    But I notice that you’re back to par­tial feeds… :(

  24. cooperNo Gravatar says:

    Goldy: It’s seems ok so far no major issues.

    MoJo: Of course you were tric­ked I am a witch, just not a wic­ked one — remember.

    Jacob: You came pretty early on just not in that first wave.

    Joe: I believe you have a blog…you of course know I am very astute. When you come out of the clo­set you will be lis­ted as an early adop­ter, maybe as the ear­liest adopter.

    Billy: It does take a lot of time and sus­tai­ned effort which honestly is not what I was ever about nor do I want to be.

    Cheers to you, I left you a note at MBL.

    Ster­ling: I just fixed the feed.

  25. danNo Gravatar says:

    If you haven’t noti­ced, peo­ple with something rele­vant to actually say are few and far bet­ween. It’s pole­mi­cal, or wishy washy, or well, boring.

    At least when you choose your sides, you have a rea­so­ned idea why, even if peo­ple do or don’t agree with you. Not thin­king things through is the sign of sen­ding big penis spam to every email, girl or boy. ;)

  26. cooperNo Gravatar says:

    Dan: I think ever­yone has something rele­vant to say. The pro­blem is they do not often choose topics where what they say is relevant.

  27. sauerkrautNo Gravatar says:

    Billy should con­si­der him­self lucky… I got some barbie-with-a-penis lea­ving a nasty gram in my MBL com­ment sec­tion calling me a “sha­ved pussy avatar.”

    The noive of some peeps.

  28. BeamanNo Gravatar says:

    That new wid­get you men­tion about sho­wing just one or two new blogs sounds inte­res­ting. I might have to get one myself.

  29. Jason P.No Gravatar says:

    Yes, it is a bitch to link to all the pla­ces you like or would like other to visit (and like too.) I don’t always get the chance to visit ever­yone, but I appre­ciate your visits and it at least lets me know I am in the world…

    Some­ti­mes it is dif­fi­cult to come up with plenty else to say, ins­tead of “good blog.” Maybe it is just hard to put into bet­ter words what ‘you said’.

  30. I will not say your post “It’s cool”, “good post”, “you suck”, “I agree”, or etc. We give a com­ment (in my hum­ble opi­nion) to other blogs, because I like to com­ment on their post, because they have give a con­tri­bu­tion to blogsphere, and am I mis­take to give some appre­cia­tion to them? Blog­ging is a fun acti­vity, I don’t blog­ging for the sake of money, I even don’t earn money from giving com­ment to other peo­ple blogs. The hell yeah, I am blog­ging because I like it. Blog­ging is per­so­nally self thin­king medium, blog­ging for self-actualization, and blog­ging for ear­ning mul­ti­cul­tu­ral relationship.

  31. DebNo Gravatar says:

    Inte­res­ting! I just remo­ved the “no follow” code within my html. I was told that this would help when I com­ment on other blogs.

    Aside from that, blogs that I’ve come across lately have TOO many mea­nin­gless rewards, tags, (like I’ll ans­wer 50 ques­tions and I’ll tag 10 peo­ple to do it type of deal), as well as the TMI blogs that just explain way too many details about one’s day.

    I was relie­ved when coming onto your blog, that you’ve noti­ced the same “trend” I see in blogosphere.

    Cheers!