“Voulez-vous Coucher Avec moi — ce soir.”

I found inte­res­ting this U.S. News and World Report “How They Do it Bet­ter”.

In this admit­tedly admit­tedly “uns­cien­ti­fic and deci­dedly incom­plete” study they explore thirty three ways in which other coun­tries do something bet­ter than we do.

There are real ques­tions as to why we can’t do some of these things here, the undo-able are so mainly due to eco­no­mics. My favo­rite and the most wor­ka­ble here are lis­ted below.

Finland’s The Sec­ret to Smar­ter Schools. No Child Left Behind having been such a fai­lure, and with the state of edu­ca­tion con­ti­nuing to dete­rio­rate here it would pay us to look clo­ser at Finland.

“In the early 1970s, Fin­land scrap­ped its old edu­ca­tion sys­tem, which stee­red stu­dents into either voca­tio­nal or aca­de­mic tracks at the end of fourth grade. In its place, Fin­land deve­lo­ped a sys­tem of “com­prehen­sive” schooling-free public edu­ca­tion for all chil­dren from gra­des 1 through 9 that com­bi­nes stu­dents of all aca­de­mic abi­li­ties and socioe­co­no­mic back­grounds in the same rooms. This hete­ro­ge­neous approach focu­ses on equity for all.”

Sweden’s Straight Facts About the Birds and Bees. Need­less to say a good num­ber of us already know that this is the way to go, admit it is natu­ral, going to hap­pen, and that no one’s vir­gi­nity belongs to Daddy. Give them all the infor­ma­tion they need star­ting at a very young age and move along. Why we com­pli­cate it so much is beyond me. The solu­tion is and always has been sim­ple. Know­ledge is power (no) baby.

“Since 1956, sex edu­ca­tion has been com­pul­sory in Swe­dish schools, from the ear­liest gra­des through high school. Sex is a natu­ral human act, the edu­ca­tors rea­son, and most peo­ple become active before they’re 20. Since there is no chan­ging that, the Swe­des figure, young peo­ple should at least unders­tand sexua­lity and repro­duc­tion, as well as the risks of unpro­tec­ted sex. “The idea is that no one gets hurt, and no one is having unwan­ted chil­dren,” says Swe­dish socio­lo­gist Bo Lewin.”

I found the part about Ita­lian eating ways inte­res­ting because I have always thought of food as fuel, nothing more.Maybe Italy has always had it right. Food Not as Fuel but as a Way of Life

The pro­blem here is peo­ple are doing everything so fast they do not have the time to sit around and appre­ciate it as the Ita­lians choose to do.

“Authen­tic Ita­lian coo­king uses much less sauce or gar­lic than its heavy-handed Ame­ri­can ver­sions. Anti­pasto may simply be lightly gri­lled fresh vege­ta­bles with a mere drizzle of olive oil and pars­ley. And even if res­tau­rant food tends to be richer in Italy, at the home table the por­tions are small. “You don’t eat seconds,” says Les­ser. “And you don’t feel stuf­fed and coma­tose at the end.”

The French and their Art of Conversation.

“But con­ver­sa­tion, like any other art, has its rules. Rule 1: A con­ver­sa­tion is an end in itself, with no pur­pose. Rule 2: Rhap­so­dies of bri­lliance are to be avoi­ded at all costs for fear of disen­ga­ging one of the par­ti­ci­pants, who may feel exc­lu­ded or humi­lia­ted. Finally, disa­gree­ment is per­mit­ted and even encou­ra­ged. “But it has to be good-natured,” Miller says. “Other­wise it kills con­ver­sa­tion.” Those subt­le­ties again.”

Check out, Where Tal­king Is a World-Class Sport

Yes well I should have read this some time ago. …that having been said the art of con­ver­sa­tion is something which we could all spend a little time per­fec­ting I think. With tech­no­logy such a force and with many con­ver­sa­tion in real life beco­ming almost pun­dit like — kee­ping real con­ver­sa­tion alive is impor­tant. If we never had the skills of the French maybe now is the time to start.
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Check out the report and let me know what you think is do-able or not and why?
I still have the post on por­no­graphy pen­ding but as I want to make it brief and as un-preachy and rea­der friendly as pos­sibly I have to wait until I have time to focus on it a bit more.

Oh, if

Apolo Anton Ohno was a foot taller he would so be my fake, young, skater-dancer boyfriend.

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18 Comments

  • The eating part just not com­pa­ti­ble with the fast pace of life here, sure we could do it and pro­bably should do it but it won’t hap­pen. We are glut­to­nous in our varied con­sump­tions, food is just the tip of the iceberg.

    Japan too in ” Skimpy Por­tions and Satis­fied Stomachs”.

    This “Novel Aides for the Aged” is very crea­tive, but wouldn’t work here at all.

  • Newt Gin­grich always bla­med his ample girth (but not his ann coul­ter, appa­rently) on the hearty PA Dutch food his mother stuf­fed down his throat whilst he was but a wee lad. PA Dutch, btw, is ger­man. Cho­co­la­tes, chic­ken corn soup and large blocks of greasy pork result in slightly roun­dish mid-sections that never, ever go away. Yet, many PA Dutchers do not suf­fer from high cho­les­te­ral. Go figger.

  • I’ve been trying to slow down my own life to the point where I don’t need to be in a hurry to eat. That is part of the rea­son why I live as simply as I can and am not inte­res­ted in a job that requi­res 50, 60, or 80 hours per week (or more).

    Eating Ame­ri­can sized por­tions is part of the rea­son I am the size I am. Not all of the rea­son, but super­si­zing things as a child didn’t help.

    I like the idea of remo­ving the stigma of sex and, oh I dunno, ACCEPTING that peo­ple have sex ins­tead of kee­ping it as some sort of big, dirty, adults-only mys­tery. Remove the mys­tery, and you remove some of the com­pul­sion to go exploring.

    I love the line about disa­gree­ments being encou­ra­ged. Some­ti­mes, there is nothing like a good, old, no-hatred disa­gree­ment :)

  • I never liked com­pa­ring one country against another. It just breeds con­tempt or jea­lousy. True, we may be inef­fec­tive in some are­nas com­pa­red to other coun­tries, but I think we make up for it others.

  • If I subsc­ri­bed to your rss feed, I wouldn’t see the chan­ges, and this is my favorite.

    I’m rea­ding Mojo’s com­ments and so wan­ting to agree with him, and think “what ways?” Cal­cium con­sump­tion comes to mind that leads, in my war­ped mind, to manicure/pedicure salons – we pro­bably have the most, the most effi­cent and the cheapest.

    Thing is I first noti­ced how modern Italy had become in 1977 – by that I mean they had ATM machi­nes that actually always wor­ked. We didn’t. I began to notice that Ame­ri­can inge­nuity was sorely lac­king while other coun­tries both pre­ser­ved their old ways and went ahead technologically

    that was around the time, Ame­ri­can fast food res­tau­rants then other res­tau­rants began intro­du­cing super sized meals. It was great for me – I could have one expen­sive din­ner and make it last for at least two more meals.

    Coo­per I pro­mise you – one day you will think of food as more than fuel – hap­pens to the best of us

    We’re famed for our chea­per mate­rial good. We have clothes made in coun­tries that work for cheap wages

    We are a great country, but we will never get ahead edu­ca­tio­nally which is the crux – for many rea­sons – local school dis­tricts won’t merge with other dis­tricts when one is ran­ked 10th in the nation, and the one that the county say wants them to merge with is at the bottom

    They’re not given incen­ti­ves to do this. Peo­ple who pay 30k a year in pro­perty and school taxes don’t want to sub­si­dize peo­ple who pay 4K a year. It would make the peo­ple who are already over bur­de­ned with taxes pay even more while the qua­lity dete­rio­ra­tes because we won’t spend the money to pro­perly train the staff.

    You can’t really blame the peo­ple who pay the 30K. Every­body wants the best for their child.

    It’s been known fore­ver that NYC pays the state much more than they get back in school aide and the city can really use that money. The Cam­paign for Fis­cal Equa­lity won a series of court cases that are currently being appealed

    NYC sub­si­di­zes ups­tate which gets the money and ser­vi­ces the city then has to somehow find

    The two rea­sons that the city is doing so well are Wall Street and the 14% tax the city collects when an apart­ment or house is sold

    Sta­tes hide behind sta­tes rights. I have been hea­ring a lot from too many Democ­ra­tic can­di­da­tes, but really nothing about edu­ca­tion because “no child.…” is a joke and nobody real knows how to fix the pro­blem without tram­pling on state and local school board’s right

    Without a mas­sive overhaul of our edu­ca­tio­nal sys­tem we’re doo­med. this isn’t a new pro­blem. It’s a big part of the rea­son I’m done with issues.

    A nation that doesn’t put edu­ca­tion front, cen­ter and middle is a mediocre nation, no mat­ter how much you love it or how great you think it is.

    Sex edu­ca­tion? We have become such a puri­ta­ni­cal nation, des­pite the overt sexua­lity that many parents I know prac­tice the don’t ask don’t tell policy. That’s pro­bably one of the causes.

    I’m totally fed up for the above rea­sons and many more

    In ans­wer to your com­ment on my very mean­de­ring post, I was trying to ima­gine what it was like for my mother as she loved my father pro­bably too much

  • I think as Ame­ri­cans we give up little and want so much. We could never be like Italy although be it were so.

    We’ve sent thou­sand of men to fight and die in a war which star­ted in part because we were not paying atten­tion and we have given up nothing.

    We con­sume food like we con­sume technology.

    Money is our king.

    Our sys­tem of edu­ca­tion is a dis­grace, but as long as the haves have it their is not real effort put behind refor­ming it.

    I love this country but it would pay to look at some of these things edu­ca­tion, sex edu­ca­tion, drug laws etc a little closer.

    Sin­ga­pore and their broom clean streets?

    Don’t they cane peo­ple over there at a drop of the hat?

    That I could do without.

  • Coo­per. I mis­sed this.….

    ” Know­ledge is power (no) baby”

    This is why my wife is in love with you and reads you every day.

    It’s why she doesn’t care that I read blogs because I sho­wed you to her.

    I have to remind myself to read your stuff slowly so as not to miss the little things.

    It’s the little things.
    That mean a lot..

    Old song, I’m not even sure why I know it.

  • Coop, am inc­li­ned to agree with you .

    It’s too bad we mis­sed the peo­ple watching phase. the Euro­peans cities have.

    btw

    I subsc­ri­bed to your feed for the first time and just loo­ked at it raw first, i usually just read you from my home page. The copy­right sta­te­ment made me laugh.

  • Y –t-il quel­que chose a dire?

    Non.

    You always say it all.

    A “Tête-à-Tête” is always a good thing.

  • I’m not a vio­lent per­son but I always want to slap peo­ple who pig out at McDonald’s.

    What’s the point?

    Tete a what?

    I’m for the slow life.

  • That song is too much.

    I’m with you and would like too add the gun con­trol of Japan, but that is not going to happen.

  • I’m not going to com­ment on the com­ments this is a self sus­tai­ning thing.

    It was just meant as something to think over.
    Besi­des I just got an email from a prof

    “coo­per you are not done yet, you may want to con­si­der get­ting back to the city.”

    So much for trying to get my real life sett­led before it begins.

    In case you are won­de­ring, and because I had a cou­ple of emails inqui­ring as to the song. I know I said the song would reflect my mood but the song currently there does not. It was just a jaunty little ver­sion of “Sui­cide is Dan­ge­rous” by The MSP and I liked it.

  • i found this enligh­te­ning in all sorts of ways, and i found none of these nuan­ces in my own country. i recei­ved an email, actually, from a friend on sweden’s “slow down” cul­ture and thought it was abso­lu­tely brilliant.

  • It’s a mat­ter of prio­ri­ties. See, France has all the good rein­deer reci­pes. The Swe­des give all their meat­balls to the Finish peo­ple at CERN for mobi­les that swirl in their unkempt offices.

    And as per usu­sual the French are all going to hell for being too judgemental.

    As for me, I judge myself to be out of your league.…

    :p

  • Trans­cience: As — I still think of you that way — I am always happy to enligh­ten the girl of the beau­ti­ful loc­ked away words.

    pro­ta­go­ras: There is no lea­gue, but you really should start your blog back up again.

    We are all too judg­men­tal. I am happy to see you around, and glad that I do not seem to be dis­tur­bing your piece of mind these days.

  • Not com­ment on the com­ments? Are you sure I’m in the right place? lol

  • I remem­ber the song from which your title line came. Reminds me of a sar­do­nic gree­ting I used to get from a for­mer friend: It’s a busi­ness doing plea­sure with you.

    I haven’t loo­ked at your source mate­rials, but I’ll ven­ture an hypothe­sis why some of these things work there and not here.

    Com­mon cul­tu­ral consent.

    I hap­pen to think that the worst sys­tem ima­gi­na­ble will work if ever­yone agrees to it, while the best one will fail if there is sig­ni­fi­cant dis­sent. Trou­ble is, com­mon con­sent is phi­lo­sophi­cally oppo­sed to indi­vi­dual liberty, which is the great myth under­pin­ning America.

    Ame­rica has had periods of com­mon cul­tu­ral con­sent. For exam­ple WWII (which, iro­ni­cally, was imme­dia­tely pre­ce­ded by an era of cul­tu­ral dissent com­pa­ra­ble to today’s — and to the Viet­nam War era) and after­wards into the 60s. These periods have, as far as I have been able to find out, been mar­ked with serious repres­sions, vigo­rously sup­por­ted by the popu­lace whether they them­sel­ves enfor­ced them or insis­ted that the state do so.

    Viet­nam broke America’s latest “com­mon con­sent” phase, and it has never been regai­ned. A symp­tom of this is the Rea­ga­no­mics phe­no­me­non of “no cross subsidy” — in which the sys­tem sanc­tio­ned the 30K per­son refu­sing to sub­si­dize the 4K per­son. Natu­rally, the com­mu­nal “flo­wer chil­dren” of the 1960s mostly subsc­ri­bed to the “Rea­gan revo­lu­tion”, now that they had stock port­fo­lios to guard.

    The prac­ti­cal — and the phi­lo­sophi­cal — with­dra­wal of sup­port by the well-off to those less so, and the refu­sal by those less well-off to see such sup­port as an oppor­tu­nity rather than as an entit­le­ment (or a wea­pon), repre­sent, I think, our grea­test cha­llenge. The War on Terror is a chi­mera — says the amoeba who has spent much of the last two days shoe­less in lines at air­ports. Peo­ple do not hate without rea­son. We are the reason.

  • How to cook without gar­lic and speak without pur­pose are absent skills, not mis­sing ones.

    I guess teaching kids is pro­bably a good thing to be good at, though.